For the clued up reader, those similarities between the Hindu social life of a bygone era and of today's, so keenly detailed throughout the treatises of Kama Sutra, will likely to bring our backs up. The author describes social venues and get together dinner parties in that indoor games and fanfares all nightlong. All copiously relished with plenty of booze and top noshes, meanwhile guessing games and knowledge quizzes along with read outs of verses would keep guests entertained 'till they drop, much like today's. Rendezvous likewise, promoting social interaction in a an ambiance provided and supported by its own social sphere.

Concerns with professionally hectically lifestyles or religiously most commonly. Thus both societal and familial expectations or impositions would share hands down common ground between our modern society and the Hindu's, albeit in their respective contexts.

Vatsyayana showed being ahead of his time, as pondering over the timing required by each relation. A relationship can easily loose momentum if faced by an emotionally lagging investment, whereas hastily attempting to put the wheels of notion into motion, would only forcibly create a premature intimacy. Furthering to leave behind significant phases of togetherness.

It's all extremely relevant and up to speed, surprisingly as the author took the trouble of writing about it so long ago. He stated conclusively that to build up a relationship with another person however treacherously demanding ought to be as exciting as pleasant and implies in willing and dealing.